I think watching The Hunger should be mandatory for all new vampires.
See how David Bowie was a strong, smart, well spoken, elegant predator. Not too extreme. Neither quiet or over the top. Not withdrawn nor invading. See that charm and wit and how people consented to be touched, feed upon, and bleed willingly! That’s called seduction. Seduction is consensual. Intelligence, Seduction, and good manners.
Be this my Darlings. Be David Bowie.